Monday 2 June 2014

Why is it your fault when you did nothing wrong?

                                  Hey! Hi Namaste this is Tulip Roy. How many times have you caught yourself in a situation, where you literally did nothing and got blamed for it? Maybe you were trying to be good and help? Maybe you thought a little extra for betterment but ended up as a loser? Well, it happens to me every day and for some or the other reason I can’t really explain myself because its always my fault one or the other, are you like me? So guess what I have got just the thing for you.
                                Now let me give you an example, you meet a person and get close to him/her, then you share your personal stuff and so does that person, so you tell something about their personal stuff (as they clearly said about yours) and it turns up against you as an evidence of you being guilty, where as you just wanted to be good, helpful or maybe the opposite of bastard, that it made you!! The same is for someone that bullies you, maybe in school or in office or in family etc. it’s all same!! Its never your mistake but always your fault!!
                                                Having you ever thought about standing up? Maybe you did, didn’t you? And now its your fault because you stood up. Do youy get me? Well enough of the problem I will give you solution. So here you go (If one doesn’t work, try another one):
1.  No reaction = No action: This is my best solution, was in school and so is now. You see a person irritates you or bullies you or tells on you, when he/she is extremely jealous or irritated of you (Not because of something you did, mostly because of your post or appearance or achievement). You see he/she tries to bring you down by it, so what you do is ignore, if his irritating you doesn’t affect you than its of no use, he will someday get tired on leave it, you know like one of those toys you hit and it stands rite up and doesn’t fall, that toy is you, someday this is going to irritate the shit outa him/her. So what this means (initially) is to ignore. If you ignore you give no reaction and if there is no reaction, there will (hopeful) be no action. If this doesn’t work, skip ahead.
2. Get some distance: yes, try to ignore this guy, if you tried the first one, then ignore, he/she gets you in trouble and when you don’t react to it all he still continues, he/she is a sick! So try n get some distance, try staying away, you know- walk away or sit far away, stuff like that. It
always works.
3. Get Dirty: did solution 1 and 2 didn’t work then you have to get your hands dirty, you gotta play dirty. You get in trouble because of no valid reason when you are trying to be good and what do you get?? Trouble, that’s what you get. So now you gotta lie, make a plan, dirty your sleeves and bring him down. Make a good plan to teach him/her a lesson but remember your plan should be solid and leak proof or it will backfire. All the best!
4. Be immune: did plan 3 backfire?? Did you get caught? Well guess what, your life sucks!! How could you not make a good plan? Well here’s a solution, you gotta play dirty but if you get caught, you gotta become bad. You got caught, you gotta take the blame and get strong!! You gotta play dirty and be dirty! You gotta be immune to all the trouble and play dirty as its only worth!!
5. Isolation: Did nothing work? Well that’s just sad, now you gotta apply the last technique. Keep people away, make them care less about you, keep them at your tips and be rude, that way, they can never really cause trouble to you. You gotta isolate people around you, keep them at a brisk, that way you stay strong and never get hurt from disappointment.
                           
                   You got to pay a price to be good, so don’t be! Be a asshole, that’s how people appreciate other people, if you become all nice and good, people step on you, stay away from people, they don’t do any good, they are there for only 2 reasons-
1.  Personal gain
2.  Entertainment from you
                         Well you wanna know one more truth- all people aren’t like that, sometimes people need a chance too, keep your mind open and be bitch, be respected.

P.S. Thanks for reading, I would love a comment! Did this help? Tell me, comment down!!

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